Last week our third through fifth grade kids who attend our children’s discipleship program called “Breakout” did chapel time at the Eugene Mission for homeless women and children.
They did a phenomenal job I might add! Were they uncomfortable? No! Were they intimidated? No! Were they nervous? No! On the contrary, they were delighted, excited, enthusiastic and incredibly effective in sharing their faith. They were totally competent, capable and willing! They’re demonstrating and practicing leadership skills. They need more opportunities like this in their lives.
This made me think about how the culture of churches today seem to believe that children and youth should not be expected to do any type of ministry service or outreach without adults leading and planning it. I think we are suppressing our children and youth through this distorted perception. Churches today should believe in and encourage our children and youth to take on leadership roles. How else will they learn to develop these skills and be effective leaders in the future?
Some of our families who believe in this attended the Rebelution's Do Hard Things Tour this past weekend in Portland. There is also a book called Do Hard Things. If you want to look at this in more detail, you can go to the website: http://www.therebelution.com/. The description is as follows and I would extend this not only for teens, but also for our children:
“Each conference is a challenging one-day event for teens by teens who believe that our generation is ready for a change. Ready for something that doesn't promise a whole new life if you'll just buy the right pair of jeans or use the right brand of deodorant.”
”We believe that our generation is ready to rethink what teens are capable of doing and becoming. And we've noticed that once wrong ideas are debunked and cleared away, our generation is quick to choose a better way, even if it's also more difficult. We describe that alternative path with three simple words: Do Hard Things.”
I wonder if the church is willing to break the habit of how we’ve always done things and choose to form a new way of thinking for the next generation. We will have to “do hard things,” but to me it is worth the effort.